There’s something magical about falling in love with your soulmate, but learning more about them over time, and appreciating the little things, are what leads to a healthy relationship. If you’re not that confident in your communication skills, asking the right questions can be challenging. This is why we love relationship quizzes!
Relationship tests give you fascinating insight into our partner’s preferences and the way they think. A good quiz can also tell you how compatible you are with each other. Whether you’re looking for meaningful measures or cute questionnaires, we just know you’ll enjoy this list of couples quizzes to take together!
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If you’re looking for a new spark in your relationship, Adventures From Scratch: Date Edition could be just the thing you need. This interactive book has something for every couple! With 50+ romantic, silly, and adorable suggestions, you’ll have date night ideas to last the whole year. When you’re in the mood to relax, cuddle up with your partner and check out the “Cascading Conversations” section to find deep and meaningful prompts that you can talk about over a glass of wine. Love is in the air!
Couples Quizzes For You to Take Together
The Gottmans—John and Julie—have been studying romantic relationships for more than 40 years. The scholars and researchers at the Gottman Institute have put together this quiz after talking to thousands of couples around the world. In fact, they assert that their quiz can predict (with 90% accuracy) how compatible and long-lasting a relationship would be.
This quiz focuses on how well you know your partner, their likes, dislikes, needs, fears, beliefs, and dreams. The idea is that, the better you truly know your partner, the more likely it is that you understand where they come from. This way, you’ll want to be with them since you know who they are as a person.
One of the easiest and most useful tests you can take with your partner is the love language test. Based on the New York bestselling book by relationship coach Gary Chapman, this quiz will help you respond to your partner in a better way. Chapman says that people express love in five different ways—through words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, physical touch, and quality time.
Once you and your partner figure out what your love languages are, you’ll be able to make them feel special in a way that they can understand. When you recognize and understand the way you expect and give love, you’ll be able to reflect that in your relationship.
One of the most famous tests on our list is the 36 Questions on the Way to Love, developed as a result of a study published by The New York Times.
This psychologist-approved quiz can be used by couples on a first date, married partners, or even friends. This quiz has been designed to make you get more vulnerable and authentic. It is divided into three sets, with each set taking only 15 minutes to answer. You can write your answers down or take turns answering them out loud. These questions are built to make you get in touch with your authentic selves, which will help you fall for each other in a deep, meaningful way.
If you’re looking for a test that’s more about science and less about gimmicks, this compatibility test by Nanaya is the way to go. Developed by rocket scientist Rashied Amini, this quiz uses extensive algorithms to help you decode your life. Once you answer questions about different aspects of your life (be it your career, love life, family, aspirations, and so on), a comprehensive algorithm will map out how compatible your views are with those of your partner.
Based on how long you spend on each question, you’ll be done between 5 and 30 minutes. Then, the algorithm calculates your results for you and sends you a personalized mail with future predictions and plans of action.
This relationship test is for fun! This is one of those couples quizzes you should keep at the ready so you can take it together when you’re in the mood to try something new. It will help you start conversations about intimacy. It makes it a little easier to add a little spice to your love life.
Each of you will fill out preferences related to your sex life, and the quiz will show you only the options both of you are willing to try. This will save you the awkwardness of having to initiate these conversations!
The 16Personalities test has been based on the popular Myers-Briggs paradigm. Simply put, this test measures your personality and character against 16 components. This will give you an in-depth analysis of your personality, temperament, confidence, approach to relationships, and many more.
The test will also group your results and give you a unique 4-letter personality type. Once you understand your type, you’ll also be able to have more insight into your partner’s type. You will also receive a mail about how compatible the two of you are, and what you can do to understand each other better. We love how comprehensive and detailed this quiz is!
If you’re looking for an in-depth test to try out during date night, the Enneagram test is the one for you. This therapist-approved test will map out your personality across 9 distinct types: the perfectionist, the giver, the achiever, the individualist, the investigator, the septic, the enthusiast, the challenger, and the peacemaker. Once the two of you take your test individually, you can compare your results to see how your personality type plays out in your relationships. This will give you a fun insight into how you behave.
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Sometimes, your partner may not be as enthusiastic about personality quizzes are you are. In that case, this quiz will get their attention!
It opens with a bold statement calling most relationship quizzes ‘junk science.’ What makes this test different is that it maps your personality across five important factors, including openness, extroversion, and agreeability. The difference between other tests and this one is that the FiveThirtyEight test does not put you under any labels or ‘types.’ It only tells you how far you are on the scale of each factor. Once you know how much you associate with each factor, you’ll also be able to understand how your partner tends to operate. This will help you understand their behavior and compare your scores with them.
9. The Pattern
We don’t know about you, but we can’t learn enough of sun and moon signs. The Pattern is an app that will give you all the info you need about each other’s astrological personalities. Once you download the app, you can fill in your birth dates and time of birth. Then, the app gives you a rundown of your astrological personalities and how compatible they are. Technically, this isn’t a quiz, but we love how in-depth the analysis is. This is a great activity to do on a double date, as well!
True to its name, this test tries to give you everything you need to find “the one.” This test measures the level of compatibility, likes, preferences, and temperament that you and your partner have. Once you take the test individually, you’ll be able to compare your results to see how compatible the two of you are. This test measures simple aspects like the type of vacations you’d like, the type of music you lean towards, and what you like to do in your free time.
This is one of the most simple couples quizzes. If you take it together, allow about 10 minutes for each of you to complete the 60 compatibility-related questions. Once both of you are done with your quizzes, the algorithm will compile your results for you so that you can see how similar the two of you are.
In case you’re looking for a different version of the Big-Five test, you can also check out Similar Minds’ Big Five personality questionnaire. This version uses the Big-Five characteristics to measure how compatible you and your partner are and has been updated to be more accurate than other tests available online.
Most personality tests may leave you thinking for too long because the questions are vague and abstract. If you want something easier to imagine, Psychologia’s test is right up your alley.
This test gives you some detailed scenarios where you will be asked to respond. Both you and your partner can pick your choices separately. Once you’re done, you’ll be evaluated on your temperament and reaction to uncertainty. This test is based on the classical theory of psychological temperament. Since it has only seven questions, it takes only four minutes to do. This is a simple way to get started with these fun quizzes with your partner.
Sometimes, a couples quiz is all you need to break the ice and get the conversation started. This simple quiz covers all the bases—family, sex, intellect, and activities. Since there are only 6 questions for each section, it won’t take much time too. Once you answer the test, you can compare results and see if you’ve really met your match. The questions can also be starting points for more conversation—you can talk about why you picked a certain answer and keep the good times going.
Things to Keep in Mind
Pick the right time to do the quiz; make sure you have an hour or two to spare, so you can do the quiz, compare the results, and talk about it with your partner.
Don’t rush over the questions. Take your time to think an answer out. However, don’t overthink either. Pick the answer that first comes to your mind.
No quiz is 100% accurate. If you’re not too happy with any result, talk about it with your partner and be curious about their experience.
Next time you spend a night in, try these quizzes. Remember that some tests are meaningful and deep, while some are just for laughs. We hope you’ll love them all!
Which of these quizzes for couples to take together was your favorite? Let us know in the comments section! And if you still want some ideas, we’ve got suggestions on activities to strengthen your relationship and unforgettable outdoor date ideas.
To feel even closer to your significant other, try these fun at-home date ideas or activities from an adventure book like Adventures From Scratch: Date Edition. Since it has loads of fun questions, it can be used as a conversation starter for couples.
Frequently Asked Questions
From astrology to personality, fun relationship quizzes can help you discover new things about your partner or just help you enjoy some quality time together and share some laughs.